What if you didn’t have to stop drinking… to start waking up?

STRIVE Foundations isn’t another lecture. It’s a pattern-breaking punch to the system.

20 short, powerful workshops handpicked from the full STRIVE Method.

Each one is designed to shatter the myths you’ve been living under.

We are not asking you to quit drinking.

We’re inviting you to see—why you drink, what it’s really costing you, and how to take back control from the inside out.

Here's what you'll unlock:

↓ Keep scrolling to see a breakdown of each of the 20 workshops ↓

The Liquid Lie

You didn’t choose to rely on alcohol—it was chosen for you.

This workshop reveals how the world sold you a lie: that drinking is normal, necessary, even noble. You’ll finally see how this story took root in your life—and why exposing it is the first step to getting free.

Why You Never Feel Good Enough

When you believe you’re not enough, alcohol feels like the answer.

This session uncovers how those old stories of shame and unworthiness keep you reaching for the bottle—and how they likely began long before your first sip. You’ll start to see the PARTS that drink just to feel whole.

You Know What to do - so Why Aren't You Doing it?

You’ve got the knowledge—but something keeps pulling you back.

This workshop uncovers the internal resistance that hijacks your follow-through. You’ll stop blaming willpower and start seeing what’s really stopping you—so you can take action that actually sticks.

Why The Truth Doesn't Sink In

You hear the truth… but it doesn’t stick.

One minute you’re inspired to change—next minute, drink in hand. This workshop shows you why certain PARTS of you can’t afford to let the truth land. You’ll learn how those patterns work, and what it takes to finally break through.

What Motivation is (And Why You're Not Broken)

One day you’re all in. The next, you’re pouring a drink.

This workshop reveals why motivation fades—and why that doesn’t mean you’re weak or broken. You’ll see how protective PARTS derail your momentum, and how to build real consistency without fighting yourself.

You're Not a Victim - You're The Cause

It’s easy to blame the booze. Or your past. Or other people.

But every time you do, you give your power away. This workshop invites you to take radical responsibility—not to shame yourself, but to finally reclaim control. Because when you stop waiting to be rescued, you can start leading from SELF.

Why You Drink at the Same Time Every Day

It feels automatic. Like the clock hits, and you pour.

This workshop uncovers the hidden rituals driving your cravings—and the emotional triggers that fuel them. Once you see the loop, you can finally break it.

The Illusion of Control

“I’ve got this.” That story? It’s costing you.

This workshop exposes the PARTS that convince you you’re in control—while quietly leading you back to the same old habits. You’ll finally see why moderation feels doable… until it doesn’t.

Breaking The Ritual That Keeps You Drinking

You don’t just crave alcohol—you crave the ritual around it.

This workshop helps you dismantle the habits that make drinking feel safe, soothing, and inevitable. And in their place? You’ll start creating new rituals that serve who you actually want to be.

How Shame Keeps You Drinking

Shame doesn’t just punish you—it pulls you back to the bottle.

This workshop shows how shame hijacks your nervous system and traps you in the cycle you’re trying to escape. You’ll learn how to meet yourself with compassion—and start forgiving what you thought was unforgivable.

How Shame Keeps You Drinking

As long as you’re hiding, nothing changes.

This workshop invites you to take an unfiltered look at your drinking—without shame, excuses, or denial. You’ll start to name what’s really going on… and finally reclaim the power to do something about it.

The Reclamation

This is where you stop waiting—and start returning to yourSELF.

In this powerful session, you’ll reclaim your worth, your voice, and your future. No more apologising. No more shrinking. You don’t need permission to take your life back.

The Rules You Don't Know You're Following

Be good. Don’t upset anyone. Don’t need too much.

These invisible rules shape your choices—and fuel your drinking. This workshop helps you uncover the beliefs you’ve been living by without realising it… and start rewriting them on your terms.

The Childhood Wounds You Still Drink Around

You think you’re drinking because of today—but the pain goes way back.

This workshop reveals how old wounds from childhood still shape your choices, trigger your PARTS, and drive you to numb. You’ll start to meet that pain—not run from it.

What Alcohol Really Costs You

You think you know what it’s costing you—but it’s so much more.

This workshop walks you through the hidden toll drinking takes on your emotions, your relationships, your wallet, and your soul. Once you see the full price, change stops feeling hard—and starts feeling obvious.

The Fourth Wall

You’ve been performing for an audience you didn’t know was watching.

This workshop reveals the social, family, and cultural roles you’ve unconsciously rehearsed your whole life. Once you step out of the performance, you can start living from truth—not approval.

Why Peace Feels Uncomfortable

Sometimes stillness feels worse than stress.

This workshop explores why calm moments can trigger anxiety or cravings—revealing the PARTS that link peace with danger, abandonment, or disconnection. When you understand this wiring, you can finally start to relax without reaching for relief.

The Traffic Light Within You

Your body knows what your mind can’t explain.

In this workshop, you’ll discover the green–yellow–red map of your nervous system—and learn how stress, shutdown, and safety live inside you. It’s not just insight. It’s a way home to calm.

When They Still Drink

What do you do when they keep pouring—and you’re trying to change?

This workshop helps you hold your ground in SELF, even when partners, friends, or family still drink. You’ll learn how to stay connected without being pulled back in.

The Safety They Create

Healing isn’t just about what you stop—it’s about where you feel safe.

This workshop helps you tune into the people, spaces, and habits that bring calm to your system—and release the ones that keep you on edge. When safety becomes your standard, everything changes.

Will This Work For Me?

This program was built for people who look fine on the outside… but feel fractured on the inside.

If you’ve achieved a lot, held it together, done all the “right” things—but still feel like something’s missing—then STRIVE will feel like someone finally sees what’s really going on beneath the surface.

If you see yourself in one of the roles below, STRIVE will feel like coming home to a truth you’ve always known—but never had words for.

The High-Functioning Hurter

This program was built for people who look fine on the outside… but feel fractured on the inside.

If you’ve achieved a lot, held it together, done all the “right” things—but still feel like something’s missing—then STRIVE will feel like someone finally sees what’s really going on beneath the surface.

If you see yourself in one of the roles below, STRIVE will feel like coming home to a truth you’ve always known—but never had words for.

You Might Be... 

✅ A startup founder who’s always “on”

✅ A coach who helps others but hides their own pain

✅ A corporate leader with a locked drawer full of wine

✅ A freelancer drowning in client calls and quiet dread

✅ A partner or parent who pays the bills—but feels miles away

✅ A high-income earner with low self-worth

✅ A perfectionist who thought success would fix it

The Invisible One

You’ve spent a lifetime shrinking yourself.

Not seen. Not heard. Not asked. Not chosen.

And somewhere along the way, you started believing that meant you didn’t matter.

Drinking became your way to disappear quietly… or to finally feel something.

But either way, you kept fading—even from yourself.

You Might Be...

✅ A stay-at-home parent who feels more like a ghost than a guide

✅ A middle child who learned early not to cause trouble

✅ A partner who’s always giving, but never really received

✅ A woman in midlife wondering, “Where did I go?”

✅ A man taught that feelings are weakness and silence is strength

✅ A people-pleaser whose needs have never come first

✅ Someone surrounded by others—but lonely to the bone

The Fighter

You’ve always done what it takes.

Push harder. Hold the line. Don’t let them see you fall.

Strength has been your survival strategy—and alcohol? Just part of the armour.

You don’t back down. You don’t break easily.

But inside? You’re exhausted. Alone. And starting to wonder if this battle is still worth it.

You Might Be…

✅ The one everyone leans on—but never checks in with

✅ A survivor who had to grow up too fast

✅ A woman who’s tired of pretending strength is her default setting

✅ A man who’s mastered control—but lost connection

✅ Someone who doesn’t cry—but crumbles in secret

✅ A perfectionist who turns pain into productivity

✅ A fighter who’s starting to ask… “What if I didn’t have to fight?”

And If None of These Feel Quite Right...

You might still belong here.

Because STRIVE isn’t for people with a drinking problem.

It’s for people with a pattern—one that starts with alcohol, but runs through your safety, your relationships, your self-worth, and your sense of control.

Maybe you don’t drink every day.

Maybe no one would ever guess there’s a struggle.

Maybe you’re still trying to figure out what this feeling even is.

That’s okay.

If you’re curious enough to be here, you’re ready enough to start.

And STRIVE Foundations will meet you exactly where you are.

My Personal Message To YOU

Lee Davy / Certified Master Life Coach / The STRIVE Method Founder

👋 In case we haven’t met yet…

Hey, I’m Lee Davy.

Like most people in Western culture, I didn’t stand a chance.

From birth, I was groomed to become alcohol-reliant. I believed drinking was natural, normal, necessary, nice, and noble.

At 14, I had my first drink. By 35, it had infiltrated every part of my life—my marriage, my work, my parenting, my sense of self.

I drank daily. I gambled too. My wife—my partner of 20 years—asked for a divorce. That broke me. I quit drinking, but it wasn’t enough to save the marriage.

With that momentum, I built STRIVE, left my job on the railway, and tried to start again. I met Liza. We fell in love. I relapsed—for a month—but it shook me. We had a daughter, got married, built a life.

And still… she asked me for a divorce.

She told me it felt like being married to a little boy.

That cut deep—but it was true.

Because alcohol wasn’t the problem. It was a symptom.

And quitting it hadn’t changed how I responded to the world.

I was still reactive. Still blaming. Still numbing.

Still living from PARTS—not from SELF.

That was the moment I realised:

Quitting drinking isn’t the end of the journey. It’s the beginning. 

So I built the STRIVE Method—first to save myself, and now to walk alongside others who want to live a SELF-led life, alcohol-free as fuck.

I’m not a guru. I’m not perfect. I’m not done.

I’m still in the work—every single day.

And now, I’m giving you the exact first step I wish I’d had when I started:

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This £47 bundle is STRIVE Foundations—

Your first real peek behind the curtain of the STRIVE Method.

Inside, you’ll find 20 powerful workshops that reveal why you drink, how alcohol hijacked your inner world, and what it actually takes to break free.

You don’t need to hit rock bottom.

You don’t need to call yourself an “alcoholic.”

You don’t even need to stop drinking.

You just need to start seeing.

Why Trust Me?

Because I have LIVED it

I’m not some suit in a seminar room. I’m a man who’s clawed his way out of the mess—again and again.

I’ve overcome alcohol, gambling, cigarettes, porn, sugar, and the seductive pull of mediocrity. I haven’t touched a drug in 15 years. I quit smoking the day my son was born. I stopped gambling the day I stopped drinking. I built my company from scratch. I’ve coached hundreds. I’ve travelled the world. I’ve torn it all down more than once—and built it back better, stronger, wiser.

I’m still married to the woman who once asked for a divorce. I’m still raising a daughter & son who sees me at my best and my worst. And I’m still in the work—every single day.

STRIVE isn’t theory. It’s lived experience, sharpened into method.

I didn’t just get alcohol out of my life. I got my life back.

Now it’s your turn.

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